Can NLP Help You Find Your Special Someone on Valentine's Day?
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Damon Cart
Date
Feb 15, 2016
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It's a tall order to use NLP to find your special someone today unless you're already highly skilled and you're very clear about what you want. It can be done though! Chances are you've heard of using NLP for seduction. That's not really what this email is about though depending on your responses I may address it in future emails. So what am I talking about? NLP is about better communication. It's also about getting very clear about what you want. Most people are more clear about what they don't want than what they do want. Try shopping at a grocery store while only focusing on what you don't want to buy and see how far you get. How are you going to find your special someone if you're not clear about who that special someone would be and what qualities they would bring to a relationship that would make you happy? Get clear on that first before anything else. You may need to go on many dates with many people to find this out. I hear people talking about the perfect guy or the perfect woman they want to find and all the qualities they're looking for in someone. Most of the time though when you ask them to describe their last three relationships, the people they actually date or nothing like the people they think they want. So experience relating to people you're attracted to is important. If you're not in the dating game because it "sucks" and you're "waiting" for the right person to find you, good luck. Sure people might pursue you but they might not be the people you actually want to be with. There's nothing worse than settling because you've convinced yourself you don't have more options. Set your intent. Be clear about the type of person you want and test ecology. How might your life change and in what ways if you were to fall in love with this person who has whatever qualities you find attractive? Use your NLP communications skills. Expressing clear intent is very attractive. It's also great for relationships. Come from abundance rather than scarcity. Stop thinking in terms of one special someone meant just for you. Start thinking that there are many people who could be right for you. There are billions of people on this planet. I would hate to think there could only be one special someone I may or may not bump into in my lifetime. Happy Valentine's Day! Damon Cart NLP Gym P.S. Sleight of Mouth is a powerful communication tool you can use in dating and relationships!
Damon Cart
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Damon Cart is considered to be a natural talent by some of the best NLP trainers in the world. His approach to guiding and teaching students brings to their awareness that they've been doing NLP all of their lives without realizing it and he empowers them with skills and resources to thrive and reach their full potential. With the understanding of how Neuro Linguistic Programs create oneβs experience a person can then take charge of those programs and create the experience and the life they want. By taking this approach into his own rigorous, daily NLP practice Damon has been able to rapidly accelerate his progress in learning, coaching clients and teaching workshops.
